We are in full swing of summer mode. Eating ice cream cones, running through the sprinkler, reading Harry Potter, trips to the library, planning birthday parties and watching family movies after supper.
I have found that I have two speeds in life: 1. busy/productive OR 2. relaxed/lazy.
The school year requires me to be fully in my first speed. I have limited time in my day to get a lot of stuff done before I start teaching. And, for the most part, I genuinely enjoy being busy and productive. It’s satisfying.
But after marrying Tim, he has also taught me how to slow down and relax. A skill I was lacking when we got married. Completely.
I had no idea how to relax. I know it sounds strange, but it’s true.
So we are enjoying our slower pace of life right now. If things take longer than we expected, it’s no big deal. If we drive somewhere and it’s closed, no big deal. If Chloe’s piano lesson goes on for an hour, no big deal. If we decide to eat ice cream for supper, no big deal. If we can’t get to the swimming suits on a hot day b/c Maddie’s sleeping, just run through the sprinkler in your clothes. If I want to ignore all of my responsibilities because I want just want to read, it’s ok. 🙂
Ah…. summer is great.
Relaxing without guilt – how wonderful! I’m so glad you have time for that, because you certainly are busy most of the year!